Monday, April 27, 2015

When One Harmless Episode Turns Deadly

If you didn’t read my post yesterday, then please stop now and read it.

No, seriously. Read it before this one.

Now that you have background to what I’m talking about, continue reading…

Putting all silliness aside, I really debated, for about a week now, if I was actually going to post what I did yesterday. I’ve come to realize that my writing is the most honest expression of me and sometimes it reveals more of me than I want it to. Yesterday’s post was one of those instances.

I finally decided to post it because I’ve come to realize that I am really struggling with an addiction to TV. It all started out with a desire to decompress from my busy schedule, but in a way that didn’t require any thought. I would get the stories I love (by that, I mean that I love stories and taking the adventure through each one), but I wouldn’t have to use any mental energy. Then the addiction crept in.

I don’t mean this to sound sinister or like TV is ruining my life, but it’s gotten to the point where I would spend hours watching TV and even skipping small homework assignments or just putting them off to the point where they don’t have the time to be more than junk.

Watching TV fueled my procrastination even more, which just let to even greater amounts of stress. That stress would lead to crippling guilt that I wasn’t doing what I was supposed to. That guilt would lead to more TV as an escape, which would only make matters even worse.

This addiction isn’t the all-consuming kind, but if I don’t get away from TV or moderate how much time I am spending watching it, then I feel myself prioritizing it. When a behavior starts becoming a priority when it shouldn’t and when it is affecting your ability to keep up with responsibilities, then it’s borderline addiction that should be stopped.

So, I finally decided to write these two posts because I think there is a big problem today with binge watching TV. Everywhere in college, there are jokes going around about how, “Netflix killed my GPA.” Or, how students are watching TV verses doing homework or going to class. We all joke about it because everybody is binge watching something.

I can’t be the only one going through something like this, not when the college culture is so saturated with these jokes or comments.

I wish our culture didn’t push so hard for entertainment, especially movies and TV, to be as much of a priority as it does. This just reminds me of one thing that the speaker at Winter Camp said, “You can’t combat 20 hours of TV with a 30 minute sermon.”

With watching so much TV, I just fill my mind with more and more that isn’t good for me. I’m so saturated in the worldly culture that is presented for me in all those very entertaining shows, but I never stop to think what it is doing to me.

Taking it a step further, what’s it say when I’m addicted to it?

The worst thing about being addicted to a substance that is non-lethal and safe is that it’s socially acceptable to do it. Some people might think I’m crazy for talking about an addiction to TV, especially when most of the US has some quantity of this addiction.

I’m really not saying TV is this terrible thing. I love it and that’s why I sometimes can’t stop myself from falling into the binge-watch cycle. I definitely don’t want to quit watching TV completely and I honestly probably still will watch it to a degree, but I’m starting to monitor how much I am consuming.

All in all, I just think we need to be conscious of those seemingly harmless things in our lives that turn into big seething monsters when we aren’t looking. We need to not let anything consume us or take control of our minds (except God).

With this post, all I ask is that you take a look at your life and try to see if you have anything that is consuming you when it shouldn’t be. Make changes. Take baby steps. Work through it, even if you don’t originally recognize it as a problem.

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